Vacation, Couples and Drinking

Okay, this is going to be short, sweet and to the point!!!


If you are on vacation with your "other half" drink a small amount.  If you walk into a bar and see that it is wall to wall people and you get the"omg someone is looking at her/him" thing easy then turn around and walk out!!!  Going into a bar like this will end with nothing good!  When you go to a bar that is full of people there is bound to be some touching/rubbing from people you don't feel should be doing that, BUT hello...the place is wall to wall people and that is the only way you are going to move around.  And remember your other half is going to look and be looked at, it is who they go home with at the end of the night that matters.  And if you are a guy you sure as hell don't go back to where you are staying and beat the shit out of the lady!  And ladies you don't ever let anyone put their hands on you!!!  You are a strong female...stand up for your self and don't let them use you as their punching bag.  And don't tell yourself that if they did not love me they would not do it...and DO NOT make excuse for them!  The whole well he said he wont do it again, it was my fault, he did it but it is okay....that is fucking bullshit!  If you want to stay his punching bag then stay the hell home and don't go on vacation!  If he is hitting you then leave his dumb ass!  You can do better then him.  And also if the cops are called and the person ends up going to jail then when it is time to go to court be a strong female and testify...they have to learn that no matter what, how much they have had to drink or pissed off they are they can't use you as a punching bag!  You need more then a guy that is going to beat the shit out of you...and no matter what you think that IS NOT love!!!!!!  Guys stop trying to show that you have balls and don't try to beat down a female.  If you think you need to do this then guess what you are a piece of shit pussy that should have their balls cut off!  You want to punch something to "prove you are a man"  then go punch a punching bag!!!!!!! 

Being part of the latch key kid generation, I was raised that you are a strong female but need to take what ever the male dish's out!  To me I think this is bullshit!  I don't feel that this is the right message that we were sent as kids and we don't need to pass these thoughts on to the future generations.  It is not right for anyone to hit anyone else!  Being a punching back don't mean he loves you, and using her as a punching bag don't mean you love her!  Our generation needs to stand up and say ya know what I am better then the past generations, they might have had to take it, but I don't, if I spend the next 10 years alone then so be it because I am not going to be beat up!!!  If you have issues of beating women up then go get help...you need to get it in your head that all you are doing is making that female feel like shit and you look like a pussy for beating up a female!  All beating up a female dose is makes you a bullie with mental problems! As part of the latch key kid generation and the future generations...lets teach the kids this is not okay, that if it starts happening to them it is not love and to reported it so that both people can get the help they need!!!!